First published in the Independent’s Travel section.

Every year in August, a small rural village outside of Mandalay transforms into Myanmar’s unofficial gay Pride.

A plate of sticky fish and rice is left on a shrine for one of the nats.

“It’s a chance to meet guys from all across the country,” says Moe Kyaw, “when it’s normally hard to find one!” He travelled here to Taung Pyone from Bagan five days ago, and is clearly smitten with new boyfriend, Nay Lin. They met here – Nay Lin is the Chair of Myanmar MSM [Men who have Sex with Men] Network, and a font of knowledge about the festival we are here to attend. He points at a plate of fish and sticky rice left on a shrine. “That’s for the nat who loves gays, and the gays love her.” He adds, “She doesn’t drink,” by way of explaining a lone can of Fanta next to the dish, amidst a tapestry of decorated offerings and booze.

That’s for the nat who loves gays, and the gays love her.

An estimated 250,000 visitors descend on Taung Pyone Nat Pwe (Spirit Festival), the largest of its kind in Myanmar’s calendar. Nats are spirits which have existed alongside Burmese Buddhist culture since the 11th century. Worshipped across the country, there are 37 in total and they have a little more cheek – and more vices – than the Buddhas.

The festival celebrates two brothers who died at the hands of the King in the 11th century.

Most nats, so tradition goes, have met a violent death, and when they revisit earth, they must be kept happy. The Taung Pyone Nat Pwe does that by celebrating two of them – brothers Min Gyi and Min Lay. It’s believed they were executed for failing to provide a brick each for the Taung Pyone pagoda, leaving gaps in the walls.

And apparently what keeps Min Gyi and Min Lay happy is chain smoking, dancing, and drinking their favourite tipple.

“My nat likes to drink beer, wine, Johnny Walker and champagne”, says Mg Mg Kyi, who has been a nat-kadaw, or spirit medium, for 40 years – since he was 13. His first husband fell in love with him when he saw him dance.

Most nat-kadaws are gay or transgender. Gay relationships are illegal in Myanmar, so the festival offers kadaws a few days each year during which they are not just accepted but adored, too. They each set up a shrine for the duration of the festival. “It’s expensive to be a nat-kadaw,” says Kyi. “It has to be a new outfit every time – and of course we want to out-bling each other!” Along with travel and board, costs soon tot up. Luckily, offerings of food, alcohol, cigarettes and money are happily exchanged for blessings. It pays off in other ways too: Kyi’s nat-possessed dancing also attracted husbands number two and three. He’s still with all three.

My nat likes to drink beer, wine, Johnny Walker and champagne.

But not everyone believes that nats should be worshipped, perhaps because the carefree partying is incongruous with traditional Buddhism. Chit Ko Ko received reports last year of “monks beating gay visitors and nat dancers” at the festival. Ko Ko is the founder of the MSM Network, and has set up shop at the festival, offering HIV testing and support to gay and trans people.

“My family is disappointed as they wanted a strong man,” says Linn Linn, who has been a monk twice.

One of his friends, Linn Linn, is a nat-kadaw. “My family is disappointed as they wanted a strong man,” he says, gesturing with his muscles. Linn Linn has been a monk twice, “once when I was seven and then again in my twenties”. Thankfully there’s no sign of hostility this year, and from novice monks to punks, believers, non-believers, young and old, everyone is here to enjoy what’s on offer, with delight rather than judgement.

For visitors like me, the real treat is the dancing. This doesn’t get going until the opening ceremony, four days into the festival. It takes place in the main temple, which gets uncomfortably packed. It’s not for everyone – Nay Lin and Ko Ko refuse to come with me, saying it’s “too busy”, and I soon see what they mean. As I reach the temple, I’m swept along by the jostling crowd. Inside I can hardly see a thing – nor can my Go-Pro which conks out under the heat. I make my exit twice: first, being swept down the temple steps by the undercurrent of crowds; second, being pulled out of the fray by a police officer who decides that, as a tourist I need rescuing.

There have been reports of monks beating gay visitors and nat dancers.

The day after the ceremony is a better time to visit – with fewer crowds I’m able to wander round the pop-up streets and happen across performances. You’re meant to tip – or make offerings to – the nat-kadaws as they dance, and a guy from the village checks what I hold in my hand, before nodding approvingly. Cash offerings must be a minimum of 10,000 kyat (£5). Anything less will be thrown back at the offerer with mock disdain.

I find myself in the right place at the right time to witness a new embodiment.
Love – for money, an experience, or a new partner – is the air.

Most kadaws are in their fifties, but new ones emerge every year – and I find myself in the right place at the right time to witness a new embodiment. New mediums are compelled to dance as the nat enters their body – it looks spontaneous to be as outsider, though I would imagine conversations take place about whose turn it is to perform. One guy’s attempt fails (apparently getting squiffy on Burmese beer before claiming to be embodied is a no-no). He looks on despondently as a woman goes next. She needs to be supported, wavering as she adjusts to the spirit’s whims. Her dance is more salubrious than the other guy’s though, plus she ignores the pile of money thrown up in the air for spectators to grab, making her a dead cert for a genuine kadaw.

As well as money, scents and stifling heat in the air, there’s love. Whether with love for a new partner, or simply gratitude for the new experiences, it’s not just the nat-kadaws who leave richer.